Oscar Wide wrote, ‘’I am not young enough to know everything.’’ I love Oscar Wilde, will surely look for books by him to broaden my mind the more. They say education is key, yet in Nigeria, I’m inclined to believe a whole bunch of us don’t even understand what key means, how then will the education matter. I am ranting or better still I should say I am overreacting.😠

I’m young enough to know some simple things like doing the right ‘freaking’ things, how hard could that be? The recent events in the country leave a very sour taste in my taste buds; I shake my head and just wonder when we will ever get it right as a nation.

Imagine a scenario where a former pension boss, Abdulrasheed Maina looted $1.2 billion (meant for pensioners) and paid $2 million cash for a mansion in the nation’s capital, Abuja, for which he was dismissed from office in 2013, has now been reinstated with promotion to office in another department in 2017. 😬😡

Paul Newman said, ‘’It’s always darkest before it turns absolutely pitch black.’’ In my dear Naija, it’s actually pitch black; dunno what it would now turn to. Our constitution gets trampled upon by thieving politicians and corrupt beings in every facet of our dear land. Where tax-payers and every other hard-working Nigerian money are being spent by the elites and the so-called cabals to ride in exotic cars, fly in private jets, earmarking billions to themselves in the name of allowances and take-home pay for their generations yet unborn. Oh, I’m freaking pissed, those buffoons are high on cheap crap they take.

Don’t even get me started on the array of mosques and churches. Jesus Christ commanded us to love the poor, to serve the needy unconditionally, but then, do we actually follow that command? On Sunday when I went for service, the personnel unit handling car park leave little to be desired with some of the personnel engaging in favoritism, and the change is supposedly suppose to start from the church, I laugh as I try to imagine them with a personality…tale for another day if the scenario repeated itself, and I sure will call them out and tweet at the pastor. 😕

Went to the outskirts of Lagos during the week, on my way back, a signpost by the Ogun State govt on the highway clearly states no picking and dropping of passengers….Your guess is as good as mine as you try to create the image of commercial vehicles drivers (danfo in local parlance) and ‘okadas’ (motorcycles) riders doing just the opposite.

I could go on and on, but whatever kind of look this present government in power was going for, it has been missed. President Buhari who was acclaimed to be a no-nonsense disciplinarian due to his past records and not for want of trying to be the president two times before now, has succumbed to the so-called ‘demon’ that rules Aso-Rock. I didn’t vote for him, but as he was in power; I wanted him to prove me wrong for not voting for him, but alas, two years down the line after the election, I’m glad to say I didn’t waste my vote on him (even though it didn’t count in the long run).

As far as I am concerned, he and all those leading us (who we will still continue to pray for, as we are more religious than the pope and that is our ‘mumu’ bane) are not the brightest crayon in the box now, are they?

Just how hard is it to do the right thing?😥😧

Aside my frustration, a gleam of hope in the form of an innocent being who celebrated his 1st year birthday gladdens my heart, as I celebrated in the parents’ joy this past weekend, knowing this is a chance to teach these young ones the values, moral codes of life and how to do things right.





October 1st, lastweek, Nigeria celebrated Independence Day (Nigeria at 57). Need I say the journey so far is still full of challenges? I don’t even want to start with the corruption tales going on even with this present administration.  Oh well, we have got to forge ahead and believe in the Nigerian dream (dream I don’t even remember having 😕😤).

I had events that I attended that were laden with career motivation, like the Human Resources group annual party where the HR trends and parenting were discussed; a visit to a good friend of mine and an ‘owanbe’ of the final burial rites of Pa Alimi at the University of Ibadan International Conference Centre, Ibadan, where I had the ‘abula’ delicacy  (i.e. Amala with ewedu and gbegiri soup). I can’t be in Ibadan and be eating rice…’kolewerk’😆😉.IMG-20171008-WA0016

The trip to Ibadan was fun aside the sad state of the roads, which made my car cringed at every pothole (the car deserves some spa moments😆 after that gruelling journey I took it through). I was able to see the famous Ibadan zoo where a lion mauled one of the zoo attendants to death last week (God rest his soul). I eventually saw the famous Cocoa House, one of the tallest buildings in Nigeria; University of Ibadan gate, and one of the local governments.

All in all…I had a nice Independence chronicle.

Enjoy the sights.


Hello pretty sis 😍

The weekend was lit! I want to believe you and our lovely readers all had a ‘fantabulous’ one as well.

It kicked off with with Kemisola’s birthday get-together on Saturday and ended on Sunday with a fun night show at the Muson Centre for the Xtreme Funny Flight comedy show….. where Falz The Badt Guy performed!!!

I so much appreciate his talent even though he is a learned colleague of yours ohh (entertainment softwork took over) 😆. Do try and get his album, you would love it. The show was fun all through, though the event started about three hours late, the organisers and the main act, Xtreme, made up for it. Different established and upcoming comedians and music acts gave us a never-dull-moment show, with Xtreme being the “cake on the icing”😆 (I intentionally switched the icing n cake ohh, not that my English is wack ohh).

Inbetween my ‘Sunday waka’, I also went to O’jez (very popular place in Surulere, would take you there when next you visit Naija) for the MTN football match show where my ‘heart-attack-giving’ team, Arsenal Football Club’s match with Chelsea FC was shown (Chelsea FC happens to be T’s club, and he so much wanted hisbteam to whoop my team’s behind…I was elated by the result😅) . my team was the better team and they played well, I must admit….. though it ended 0 – 0. MTN (a network service provider in Naija, sponsored the show) and serenade avid football supporters with music, comedy and give-aways..

So..there goes my memorable weekend gist. Let’s have yours!



Happy Monday Sisi!!

So sorry I have been MIA. Life has been busy with work and love, but who is complaining?! Too busy having too much fun!! 

I see you had a very eventful and memorable weekend! Happy happy birthday to Kemi!!! Wish I could have joined in the celebration and festivities. Next time 😄

My weekend was not nearly as fun-filled as yours but it was quite memorable in its own way. I finally gave up on my first and only car of the last decade. It was tired haha…I trust my replacement will soon find out why its predecessor was so tired haha

Well, onward and forward to a new week and new memories. Until next time!






Hi sisi…

It was a great weekend for Kemi, a host of wonderful SDK blog visitors and yours truly. We celebrated one of the finest and large at heart personalities, Stella Dimoko-Korkus. she a top Nigerian blogger, and loved by many. Aside her philanthropic nature, she uses her platform to help other people’s businesses, create good and educative content on her blog for people to draw inspiration and advise from, not forgetting the fact that she is the queen of gossip/gist on entertainment, especially on the Naija scene.

I have been an ardent follower of hers since she was a journalist at Encomium Magazine, one of her trademarks was giving her readers task of using alphabets to decode some names of celebs for some hot and juicy gossips. When I read of her blog back in 2012 or 2013 I think; I was elated and didn’t waste time in reading and opening that blog daily ever since, I have also learnt a lot from the different segments of discussion. Even though, I’m yet to meet her in person (which I hope to someday), I believe in her and love her assertive nature.

Sunday, 27th August, 2017, would go down in history ohh as one of the best parties hosted in her honour in Lagos. Blog visitors came together to have a party and get to know one another in honour of Stella who brought us together under one umbrella. Such get-together was also done in Abuja and other states, while other are planning same. The party was well organized by Cassy Sassy event and was lit, with enough to eat and drink, dancing and lip-sync competition which Kemi came 1st runner-up, and we got branded cups as souvenirs.

This isn’t a hype, but a testament to a wonderful person who has touched lives in more ways than one. Glad to be a part of her (SDK) brand and wish her more blessings. Much love to you Stella.

Here are some pictures from the event.



Hallos sisi and everyone…
I trust you all had a great week, mine was all right and I had the privilege of attending a health fair programme organised by two different organizations at different locations. One was by MMM Nigeria (Team Lagos) in conjuction with Blue Sky Hospital and the other was by Women of Destiny (an arm of Daystar Christian Centre).
Both outreachs provide basic preventive medicine and medical screening to folks in the community. It was both an interavtive and informative event.

The women of destiny health fair emphasises on breast feeding and benign breast lumps as well as living healthy. I did learn a lot like women under 40 should undergo an ultrasound  instead of mamogram which women above 40 are advised to go for due to the density of the breasts. More so is the health benefit of breast feeding to both the child and the mother.
So, can’t wait to start having babies, so as to give them the best nutrients they need to grow up healthy and brainy😆.

MMM Nigeria Team Lagos health fair programme changed my perspective about MMM (still cautious though). Before now, It was described as a ponzi scheme by the govt and financial institutions (meanwhile, workers in both institutions were heavy participants 😩) especially with the freezing of activities on the online platform in Dec. of 2016, where a lot of people could not get help after providing help to others…including yours truly, still have my money in the system.
I was reoriented by Mr, Shola and Mr. Gbenga who are guiders and they made it known that the greedy nature of some Nigerians caused the December temporary pause, but as at Jan 2017, administrators of MMM and MMM Nigeria went back to the drawing board to put guidelines in place whereby the purpose of MMM which is to break the unfair system of the financial world and give help to the less priviledged would be achieved. It is not about doubling money, but rather giving help with spare money that won’t hurt one to others who need help,thereby one also receiving help when in need. There is a caveat on the MMM platform and I quote “Warning, this is a community of mutual financial help! Participate only with spare money. Don’t contibute all the money you have.” Trust Nigerians to ignore.

The Team Lagos arm of MMM Nigeria contribute money on a monthly
basis with assistance from guiders in Russia to help the less privileged, this gave rise to the health fair in order to assist those who could not afford health care in terms of free eye test with eye glasses, test and free treatment on hypertension, diabetes, malaria/typhoid for both young and old.
This noble gesture isn’t only done by Lagos team, same charitable events are also done by an arm of MMM Nigeria in Port Harcourt and Abuja.

I know quite a number of people would have their misgivings about MMM, I would advise one go through the new guidelines which is more believable and offers ways of providing and getting help without much hassles and greediness rather than the greedy way previous MMM guiders latched on.

For avoidance of doubts and to get more information concerning MMM, kindly call Mr. Shola (a.k.a. Leccturer), on 08055248912.

Here are some pictures from the health fair.









Hello sis…

What do you think of this article, as I am aware that you are not just a hard worker, you are pretty smart when it comes to work? … **inserts wide grin**

It can be said that hard work means working monotonously in the same old conduct and technique whereas, smart work is to change the approach in which the work is done, in order to get improve output.

Our culture respect of hard work dates back to the ideals of our forefathers, who possessed a tireless work ethic and noble humility. Evolution to a service economy for most nations and particularly during the digital revolution of the past quarter-century, hard work has become a remnant of the analogue, industrial past and people are now being taught to work smarter, not harder.

In as much as working hard is giving it your all from the second you wake up to the moment you go to sleep, which can’t be faulted , it can also be said that someone might be able to do the same amount of work in less amount of time, by working smarter and more efficiently.

Depending on each person’s distinctive personal statement and meaning of success, working smart differs. Work smart basically means figuring out what our strengths are and building a network around us to build upon, in order to reach goals in the quickest and most efficient way possible. Finding ways to work smarter, not harder and finally achieve the work-life balance one desires lean on the more self-awareness one gains about his/her work style.

Key difference between hard work and smart work is that while the former is when one does same work in a dedicated manner but rarely feel like they accomplished anything, not getting the recognition they deserve, the former is when one does the same amount of work, but faster and more efficiently, aiming to accomplish SMART (specific, measurable, attainable, result-oriented and time-bound) goals.

Some critics have said that there is no substitute for hard work and that smart work is shortcuts that people came up with. The question is, smart work has been proven to work, if you could achieve the same amount of work, in the same time, how can that be a shortcut? Probably, the question should be, why are we not engaging in both?

Hard work comprises skills which are accomplished through physical capabilities, dedication, way in which one can give his/her maximum effort to achieve predetermined goal. Smart work on the other hand is, innovating new ideas which requires intellectual capabilities and emotional intelligence to get the work done, way in which or when one can use their hard work potentially to accomplish their target.

Both hard work and smart work are crucial and not to be seen as mutually exclusive, but not sufficient for business success, as vision, risk control, creativity amongst others play a fundamental role. Young professionals and promising entrepreneurs must not only work harder and smarter but also longer and better because the competition is already doing that.